Belated. Yes. But here goes…
About a week ago one of my readers, Paragon2Pieces, posted a comment on the blog:
Hi Stephanie, this is unrelated to DWTS, but I was wondering if you could do a post about dance shoes. How long does a pair last? What style works best for you? Have you ever tried one of the more expensive brands and, if yes, was it worth it? I’d love to hear your thoughts. Hope all is going well inside and outside of the dance studio!
Bad blogger that I am, I have allowed life to get in the way of a prompt response. But I can’t express enough how much I appreciate interacting with my readers. I originally intended to just reply to her comment but, as you know, I am a prolific writer, I love to opine, I have lots to say. There could be no short, concise response from me. As I began to see how long my reply was becoming, I decided it should be a blog post in its own right.
Perhaps I missed the boat, Paragon, and you’ve already purchased a new pair of shoes. Even so, I guess late is better than never. Here is my experience: I have tried Dance Naturals. They are expensive and actually made in Italy, I think. It took about a month to get them – I bought them online. They were, to date, my favorite shoes. In that case, for me, they were worth the money. I don’t remember how much they cost (probably upwards of $300 with all the shipping and everything – plus they were leather, not satin), but I do remember how amazing they felt on my feet once they were broken in, and that, if you’ve ever danced in heels (much less walked in them) is priceless.
However, I don’t know if it is absolutely necessary to purchase a top end pair of dance shoes to find a pair that you love. I think that the shoe style that will work best for a person depends upon their feet. It is probably best to be fitted in person. I took a chance buying the Dance Naturals online, especially since they are in European sizes. I was worried for a long time that they wouldn’t fit once I got them and I had to stretch them out a lot. The top of my foot always bulged a little below the strap over the toes. They honestly weren’t a perfect fit. But over time they softened and it worked well enough. So, next time around, even though I loved that pair of Dance Naturals, I’d prefer to get a pair fit in person before purchasing them again.
I recently purchased some new shoes that were not Dance Naturals. I tried on a bunch of pairs in the store. Some I thought were cute but when I put them on I could barely stand in them. I don’t know if one brand is “better” than another but I do think that quality of materials and construction methods used can extend or shorten the life of a shoe. I am really bad about wearing my shoes (and clothes too) way past when a normal person would still wear them – they just get so broken in and comfortable. The guy at the shoe store told me I had to throw out the two pairs of shoes I’d been holding on to, they were that bad. lol. The other pair of shoes that worked for me are not as cute but they support my foot well and they just came from a catalog at one of the dance studios I used to go to – a no-name brand.
I will also share that my friend, Ivonne, had an experience buying shoes. She opted for a less expensive pair before the competition she did and realized very quickly that in general you get what you pay for in terms of ballroom shoes.
I think it’s probably wise to have a few pairs of dancing shoes. Practice shoes, for instance, are awesome. I can dance for a long time in those suckers, they are so cushy. However, they have a lower heel, so if I only dance in those I have to retrain my calves, ankles, and all the little accessory balance muscles in my lower leg to handle higher heels like I’d wear in a competition. It took me a long time the first time around to acclimate my feet and legs to dancing in heels – it is not something I’d like to repeat! It was painful, required that I ice my feet nightly, and took a long time. So, I’m looking to have a balance between keeping my lower legs and feet trained to handle higher heels, and also giving them a break so I don’t overstress my feet by wearing the practice shoes. It stinks to not be able to get in the cardiovascular conditioning I need to accrue because my feet hurt too much to walk.
The pair I currently have are a middle-of-the-road brand. They are sturdy and they work well enough for everyday practice. They aren’t particularly cute and I’ve been thinking that I want another pair of those Dance Naturals again. Once I get my new job lined up and financially things aren’t so tight, I probably will do that for myself. At the end of my Dance Natural shoe life-span they felt as good on my feet (with 2.5 inch heels) as my practice shoes feel now (with a 1 inch or 1.5 inch heel).
I don’t know how long ballroom shoes are “supposed” to last. It probably depends on how often you dance. For someone like me who tries to dance multiple times a week and doing double lessons sometimes, they won’t last as long as for someone who dances once weekly.
Also, I think because of the differences we all have in foot shape, size, and anatomy, we will all have different preferences for brands that work well for us. I know Marietta has a particular brand she likes (I can’t remember it right now), and a lot of people like Ray Rose. Again, it depends on what fits your foot best and what you are willing to pay. I’ve personally used both less expensive and more expensive shoes and both have served their purpose. Ultimately I liked the more expensive pair better.
I hope this perspective helps and good luck finding the perfect pair for you! Maybe when you find them you can send me a picture of them and I’ll share it on the blog, or you could post them on the Dancing With Stefanie Facebook page. You could even write a follow-up guest post to this sharing your shoe-related experience, if you like. Consider it an open invitation. Also, I invite you, and any other reader, to ask questions, suggest topics for future blog posts, and to generally interact on the blog.
I appreciate you!